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Ask Susan: Help for a Critical Spirit in Marriage

by Susan Alexander Yates

Sometimes as wives, it’s easy to develop a critical spirit within our marriage.  A friend was asking me about this recently, saying she feels like she’s critical of her husband all the time.

Have you been there?  I have.

Did you know that a critical spirit can be toxic to your marriage?  Please understand, I’m not suggesting you should overlook real problems that need to be addressed.

But when the running commentary in your head is a constant stream of negativity toward your husband, that’s something you should take a look at.  I found myself there more than once, and started a daily habit that changed my perspective.

I call it the marriage vitamin, and it works to replace criticism with gratitude.

Watch the video for all the details:

For more on this topic, check out I Can Be a Picky Wife.

 

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